# “Technology in its proper place” by Andy Crouch

- Link: https://tollelege.net/2018/04/09/technology-in-its-proper-place-by-andy-crouch/
- Published: 2018-04-09T12:00:39-05:00
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“Figuring out the proper place for technology in our particular family and stage
of life requires discernment rather than a simple formula. Even the ten commitments
in this book are meant to be starting points for discussion– and as you will read,
they are ones my own family has kept fitfully at best.

But almost anything is better than letting technology overwhelm us with its default
settings, taking over our lives and stunting our growth in the ways that really 
matter. And I think there are some things that are true at every stage of life:

**Technology is in its proper place when it helps us bond with the real people we
have been given to love.** It’s out of its proper place when we end up bonding with
people at a distance, like celebrities, whom we will never meet.

**Technology is in its proper place when it starts great conversations.** It’s out
of its proper place when it prevents us from talking _with_ and listening _to_ one
another.

**Technology is in its proper place when it helps us take care of the fragile bodies
we inhabit.** It’s out of its proper place when it promises to help us escape the
limits and vulnerabilities of those bodies altogether.

**Technology is in its proper place when it helps us acquire skill and mastery of
domains that are the glory of human culture** (sports, music, the arts, cooking,
writing, accounting; the list could go on and on). When we let technology replace
the development of skill with passive consumption, something has gone wrong.

**Technology is in its proper place when it helps us cultivate awe for the created
world we are part of and responsible for stewarding** (our family spent some joyful
and awefilled hours when our children were ill middle school watching the beautifully
produced BBC series Planet Earth). It’s out of its proper place when it keeps us
from engaging the wild and wonderful natural world with all our senses.

**Technology is in its proper place only when we use it with intention and care.**
If there’s one thing I’ve discovered about technology, it’s that it doesn’t stay
in its proper place on its own; much like my children’s toys and stuffed creatures
and minor treasures, it finds its way underfoot all over the house and all over 
our lives. If we aren’t intentional and careful, we’ll end up with a quite extraordinary
mess.”

–Andy Crouch, _[The Tech-Wise Family](https://www.amazon.com/dp/0801018668?tag=toletaupanre-20)_(
Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Books, 2017), 19-21.

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