“The bright message of Scripture is that change really is possible. God sent His Son to live, die, and rise again to give us new life and with that new life the promise of reconciliation and restoration. Your marriage is not encased in concrete. You are not stuck.
God not only calls you to change, but He has already given you everything you need to make the changes to which He has called you. Remember, you are not alone in your struggle. He has invaded your marriage with His powerful love and transforming grace.
Confess the things that have broken the trust between you and get to work building trust once again.”
–Paul David Tripp, What Did You Expect? (Wheaton: Crossway, 2010), 154.